How Well Do You Know Your Siblings? Better yet Dennis Eckersley Womens Jersey , How Well Do You Know Yourself? Family Articles | March 21, 2007 There are only five senses, but countless ways of seeing things. ?Personality Differences? often cause conflict in the division process of an estate settlement. Without understanding these differences, the process of keeping the peace and avoiding conflict will be much more difficult. From the book Positive Personality Profiles by Dr. Robert Rohm, there are four basic personality styles. Each style sees the world differently. Each style has both great strengths and several weaknesses. No two people are exactly alike. Therefore, every personality is really a blend of all four styles. Using the model of human behavior, there are two questions to ask about yourself or anyone you want to better understand:
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2. Which are you more interested in: A. People or B. Tasks OutgoingTask-Oriented: ?D? personality style (Dominant Style).
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They are fun to watch, great starterspoor finishers, likable, prone to exaggerate, and easily excitable. They don?t like being ignored, being isolated, being ridiculed Jose Canseco Womens Jersey , repetitive tasks, detail work or long-term projects. Tips for communicating with ?I? personality types are: Think in terms of ?Who? questions. Let them express their ideas. Keep a friendly environment. Turn talk to action. Focus on their accomplishments. Provide compliments. Gently steer them back to business. ReservedPeople-Oriented: ?S? personality style (Supportive Style). Basic traits are Steady, Stable, Secure, Supportive, Servant?s Heart, Sweet, Submissive, Shy, Status-quo Catfish Hunter Womens Jersey , Sentimental, Save everything, and Sameness. They are viewed as the sweetest people in the world. But, they are easily manipulated. They are loyal friends and team players. Although they are poor starters, they are great finishers. They don?t like insensitivity, to be yelled at, misunderstandings, sarcasm, surprises, or being pushed. Tips for communicating with the ?S? personality type are: Think in terms of ?How? questions. Be agreeable and non-threatening. Give them time to adjust to changes. Show appreciation. Provide follow-up support. Talk more slowly during stress ? do not rush the conversation. Demonstrate sincerity. ReservedTask-Oriented: ?C? personality style (Cautious Style). Basic traits are Competent Mark McGwire Womens Jersey , Cognitive, Cautious, Careful, Calculating, Critical thinking, Compliance wanting, Conscientious, Correct, Consistent Conformist, and Cold. They are perfectionists Glenn Hubbard Womens Jersey , difficult to satisfy, logical, meticulous, self-sacrificing, and inquisitive. They don?t like mistakes, sudden changes, shoddy work, lack of preparation, unnecessary interruptions, or being criticized. Tips for communicating with the ?C? personality style are: Think in terms of ?Why? questions. Be specific on points of agreement. Avoid emotionalism. Check your facts. Show a ?pro and con? balance sheet. Show how they fit in. Provide proof. Patiently welcome questions. Although every person is a unique creation Reggie Jackson Womens Jersey , knowing the personality style of the people involved in an estate settlement will generally give clues as to how each person thinks and therefore how conflicts may be reduced. Each style sees the world in a different way. For example:?D?s? move quickly and make decisions quickly. They are impatient, and they will probably want to ?boss? the process. They have a potential to ?run-over? others, and unless they are aware and careful, they may hurt the feelings of others. However, ?D?s? are the style least likely to hold a grudge after all is finished ? no matter what happens. ?I?s? are impatient, easily distracted, and easily bored. They like to talk about the work to be done but frequently do not show up for the chores involved in the estate settlement process. They may agree to something and then not follow through. Other heirs may be upset, because they do not feel that the ?I? has done his or her part. ?S?s? are easygoing and hate conflict. ?S?s? will generally agree to do more than their share, and other heirs may try to take advantage of them. Their spouse may be anxious to make sure that they get their fair share. In addition, ?S?s? will probably be the most sentimental heirs. ?C?s? are organized and perfectionistic. They will generally be critical of how others handle things. They want things done the ?right? way. Many times their idea of the ?right? way conflicts with the ?right? way ideas of others. ?C?s? may want the process to go slower than other heirs. A knowledge of personality styles can help you to understand other heirs more fully and to see potential problems before they arise. 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